Become more detached. Ask yourself: “Who is competitive?”, not “Am I competitive?” Of course you are competitive; everybody is. Find out who is. If you distance yourself from the competitiveness and identify with the “who”, then you become more detached. The more detached you become, the easier it is to be detached; it becomes a habit. The thing is to look at what is happening, and to detach from that by not identifying. Continue reading “Detachment, Competition and Co-operation.” →